BUSTED

Ayus! This kid came on to me, asking for suggestions on how he can make sorry effectively to a girl he offended..

uhh.. Should I be flattered!? Should I shrug it off!? Should I laugh my bootylicious butt off?! (har har)

There I did it!
I also shared my good-for-nothing-words of wisdom to him..

Situation : na-offend ni boy si girl when he said she's maarte (way maarte!) and whaddya know, he didn't really mean what he said!

Assessment : I think this is so typical of boys. To say things without really meaning them (generally speaking ha!) And this boy in particular did just that,and worse, offended the girl.

So thus starts his dilemma. Paano siya magsosorry ngayon?!

I say "it's too late to apologize, its too late.." (Yes, kinanta ko na XD)

Told him, clearly, na over sa pangungulet niya yong girl kaya ayon.. The way I see it, he could keep on trying to apologize but that's as far as he can go.

Well, he went on further pa pala, to ask me (though, by this time nagtataka na ako ba't ako ang tinatanong niya.. honest!) What do girls usually like (in my opinion daw since babae nga ako) na gawin ng mga boys for them to be forgiven?

How does one woe a girl ba?! In a way I can't relate to this. Its not like I woe girls! I woe guys! Dang!

At a loss : uhh.. I believe not all girls are the same, nor do they have the same preferences!

"Eh, medyo pareho nga kayo, matapang.. strong." (may banat na ganun?! hmmph! "suplada" yata ibig sabihin ng batang to ah!)

Now, I beg to differ.. For one thing, I'm not matapang! I cringe at the sight of needle na tinutusok sa patient! (well, unless its done to me, but that's beside the point! I digress).. I don't believe myself to be strong! I told him so, to point the fact that I'm not like the other girl! Furthermore, if a boy offended me (or anyone for that matter) they're as good as dead to me..

So, with all due respect, I think wala na ngang magagawa ang batang ito..

What's done is done.

Well, he could just let it be, and perhaps think of his situation this way : if he was aiming to get the girls attention, he surely got it! (though, not in the most favorable way). He could also delude himself into thinking that atleast, the girl cared enough for his opinion of her to get mad about what he so rashly said to her. And if it were true, the girl would eventually miss him so much that siya mismo ang gagawa ng paraan to get in touch with the boy. If not, then wala ng magagawa si boy, kasalanan niya rin naman! It all goes down to that!

Geez! Boys nga naman... ~.~